Love & joy is freedom. There is infinitism. There are no rights and duties. If there are than it is bondage. Expecting other’s to experience the love & joy as same or in similarity is not possible and is a forcefulness and limitation and so a bondage. We may behave in certain way but it’s because we like to behave in that way and that’s freedom but expecting other’s to behave in same way is forcefulness.
We should be accepted in the way we are and accept other’s the way they are.